for good..

"And now whatever way our stories end
I know you have re-written mine
By being my friend..."

- Wicked

the spouse checklist

sometimes i tell the young ones, especially the one that gets into relationship after relationship in quick succession, that times of singlehood is actually good. rather than wasting all those time jumping into relationships, "grading" each one against an unrealistic list of ideal adjectives, why not spend the time improving yourself to be the someone your future other half need?

so i came across this article that kinda perfectly put all those thoughts together, and it even came with a really good list of how to improve ourselves:

http://www.boundless.org/relationships/2014/the-spouse-checklist